“Getting pregnant is an unconscious thing and women especially need to take a step back and stop thinking about why it isn’t happening. I believe that if you’re sending negative messages to your body then it’s harder to conceive.” -Ziva West”
This quote comes from Ziva West – midwife, nutritionist, acupuncturist and author – who runs a Harley Street Fertility Clinic. I uncovered it during some recent research when I came across an article from the February 2010 Mirror.co.uk.
Well Zita, I agree – wholeheartedly. In fact, I’m building my whole business around the fact! I’m convinced that having the right mindset can improve the chances of getting pregnant for many women, especially when the infertility is unexplained.
It’s much more of a holistic approach to link mind and body so closely, but it’s a concept that’s gradually gaining more credence in conventional medicine. How (and what) you think can have strong physical effects and vice versa, just consider how stress and depression can be both physical and mental manifestations of dis-ease.
Since I’m on the subject of what other people say, can I give you another quote, from one of my favourite authors, Deepak Chopra who began his career as an endocrinologist before shifting focus and becoming a writer and speaker in the self-help, spirituality and alternative medicine fields.
In his book ‘Quantum Healing’, Deepak says, “Favouring mind over matter is not a mystical notion. If you want to build a skyscraper today, you don’t start piling up concrete and steel; you go to an architect, whose intelligence prepares the plan that must exist before construction begins.”
The architect has to take the thought of the skyscraper and give it form, a shape, an identity. And he also has to overcome the many obstacles which arise in the manifestation of the form of the skyscraper. But most of all, the architect has to believe absolutely that this skyscraper will be manifest, otherwise there may not be enough energy to complete the project.
If you’re trying to get pregnant, let me ask you – what form have you created with your thoughts? Do your thoughts represent what you WANT, or what you DON’T WANT? It really is vital to focus on what you want.
And I know that’s not always easy, so hopefully this further quote from Deepak Chopra will inspire you …
“You must find the place inside yourself where nothing is impossible.”
I’ve got that quote stuck on my computer screen! Perhaps you’d also like to keep it in the forefront of your mind.
If you’d like help to stay positive on your baby making journey you can join the FREE Baby Making Mindset Group on facebook, just click this link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/freeBMMclub/.