“There is a difference between wishing for a think and being ready to receive it. No one is ready for a thing until she believes she can aquire it.”
I’m not sure where it came from or who said it, but I do think that our beliefs have a vital impact on our results.
Does your belief support you having a baby? Do you really believe that it will happen some day, or do you think it will never happen for you?
Go inside yourself for a moment and ask yourself just how strongly you believe that you will:
- become pregnant
- have a stable pregnancy and
- give birth to a healthy baby
Give yourself a score of 1-10 where 1 = not very strongly at all and where 10 = 100% certainty.
If your score is less than 10 for each of these questions then you need to work on your beliefs.
To create a strong belief you need three things:
- You need to know that it is POSSIBLE to achieve your heart’s desire
- You need to know that you are ABLE to achieve your heart’s desire
- You need to know that you DESERVE to achieve your heart’s desire
KNOW IT’S POSSIBLE: If there’s no medical reason for you not to get pregnant, then it must be POSSIBLE, until it is proven that it’s not possible. So until that point, you can only say that you have not got pregnant YET. Often our impatience drives us towards a negative view of a situation. Don’t be too quick to decide what is impossible, be patient and consider that your heart’s desire hasn’t come about yet.
KNOW IF YOU ARE ABLE: Avoid putting limitations on what you think is possible. Do you have an age beyond which you think it will be impossible to get pregnant? Do you think you are less likely than friends of your age to get pregnant? These beliefs are arbitrary judgements you have made about yourself and they are just as likely to be WRONG as they are to be right. Banish them, completely, NOW. Keep an open mind. Be positive in your thinking. And open yourself up to the abundant possibilities that love and life have to offer.
KNOW YOU DESERVE IT: Do you feel you deserve a baby? If not, why not? Do you have a belief system that says: things need to be difficult to have value; or you never get what you really want; or everyone is better and more deserving than you; or bad things happen to good people?
Have a look at your belief system and check that they support your desire for a baby and then you can truly be ready to receive your baby.
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