Have you noticed that the longer you’ve been trying to get pregnant, the more the people there are around you who are getting pregnant? Until, suddenly, you’re surrounded by friends and family, just about all of whom are expecting.
And, have you wondered – screamed from the rooftops even – “Why not me?” Why, when you’re trying so hard, should everyone else be getting pregnant? Why is it that you can’t walk down the street without noticing how many women are pregnant?
Have you ever felt like that?
Does it cause you to feel depressed, alone, isolated? Do you feel that life is treating you unfairly? Do you wonder if you’ll ever get pregnant?
Well, have you considered that you’re attracting all that pregnant energy? And it may be that it’s you who’s next in line. After all, if you’re drawing all that pregnant energy towards you, it may just need a little re-direction to find you next.
Here are three ways to attract that pregnant energy to YOU:
- Be grateful for what you’ve got. Take some time out every day to be grateful for what you have – and write it down. Gratitude helps you to feel blessed and abundant, rather than blighted and anxious. And the more grateful you are the more blessed and abundant you will feel and you will then begin to draw that into your life. Oh, I know, it all sounds really New Age, but counting your blessings has been used for thousands of years to restore flagging spirits (check out any Bible). Just give it a try and see how you feel, if it’s not resonating with you then you can stop, but you’ll never know how well it might work unless you give it a shot.
- Get ready to receive. How much joy can you take in your life – a bucket full or a thimble full? If you want to know how ready you are to receive, just close your eyes and imagine yourself in a stadium with 10,000 people. There’s a thrum of voices as those 10,000 people chat. You walk to the centre of the stage and look out at the audience and you stand there until the noise abates and there’s absolute silence. You introduce yourself – “Hello, my name is ……..” and wait. The audience begin to applaud. They’re applauding you, not for any reason, not for anything you’ve done, but just because you’re you. The applause increases in volume and the audience begin to rise from their seat. You’re getting a standing ovation from 10,000 people just for being you. The applause continues ………. and continues ………………. and continues……….. 1 minute ……… 2 minutes …………. 3 minutes ……………… 4 minutes ………….. 5 minutes.You’ve being given a standing ovation for 5 minutes. How does that feel? Do you get uncomfortable just standing on stage? How quickly do you want to leave the stage after the applause begins? How much recognition and joy are you ready to receive?
- Absorb the baby making energy. If you feel surrounded by pregnant women, draw that pregnant energy towards yourself.Imagine yourself in the centre of a circle of pregnant women. Notice the glow that seems to emanate from them. What colour is it? Is it dense or light, warm or cool? Now see yourself surrounded by that pregnant glow. Feel yourself protected and safe within this pregnant glow. And notice how the glow of pregnant energy begins to move towards you from all directions until it encompasses your whole body. How do you feel being cloaked in this pregnant energy? What emotions are present? Are there any feelings of discomfort or discord? If there are, turn your attention towards those and allow them time and space. Hold your attention on them, without trying to change them or making any judgement of them until you notice them dissipate and disappear gently and totally. Now how do you feel? Thank the pregnant women who encircle you and allow them to fade away, leaving you surrounded by their pregnant glow. Now draw that pregnant glow towards you until it forms a cocoon around you. This cocoon of pregnant energy around you will act as a magnet for pregnant energy, directing all future pregnant energy towards you.
Give these three techniques a try and tell me how you get on.